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Wow!!!  It feels a little like I'm blowing the dust off this place and taking my plastic coverings off the furniture, but it is good to be home!

Let's jump in.

For anyone who is new, SpireSpire follows participants who have committed to a year-long process of achieving a scary, life-changing goal.  We get to watch the drama and struggle, they get accountability and strength to push through an achieve what they really want to do.

At the end of SpireSpire round ONE I said that I wasn't planning on doing a round two.  I'll admit it.  I was tired partially from writing a book and running Spire (and maybe a lot from being pregnant...as I STILL AM, good lord, how long does it take to incubate a human??) But I had these people with awesome dreams and goals that kept cropping up.  And who kept asking about Round 2.

And the more I thought about it, the more I thought about how much love I had for the SpireSpire project!  And how much of a difference it had made for people.  Yes, not everyone finished the year.  I didn't even achieve my being famous goal!  (What the heck.) but a book was written (and because of that book, I've been able to help other authors begin to write their books.)  And a musical was produced (and because of that musical, two wells were dug and two villages have water, and projects in turn were inspired by that musical.)  Music was created (which created a band, which is helping to breathe life into the music scene at a college campus), French was learned (which lead to a switch in majors, which is leading to a new fabulous woman in the field of linguistics.)  There are still ripples coming off of the first round of SpireSpire that I'm even having a hard time believing.

So what now?  I'm looking for participants, people who have large goals to achieve and need some accountability to achieve them.  In the past we've had a producer trying to find a way to to block, direct and produce a musical in 24 hrs., weight loss, language learning, an amateur writer looking to complete her first book, musicians creating music, artists creating shows, comedians looking to break into the movie business.  Did they all pan out?  Not everybody made it all the way through.  Life happens.  This is a big commitment and people make goals and don't keep them every day.  But you could.  It's possible.

Here's the basics:

You need to be able to write coherent sentences.  You're going to be blogging about your experiences of trying to achieve your goal once a week, so you need to be okay being introspective and honest while you're writing about how you're doing.

You need to have a large goal:  Here's what typical seems to succeed--choose something significant to you.  There's goals that are cool (like I would love to have my black belt) and then there are goals that bring me more in line with who I want to be as a person. (A storyteller.)  For me, a black belt would be a nice notch on my belt, but I'm not especially hard-wired as an athlete.  It's cool, but not integral to who I am as a person.  So your goal should be somewhere along the lines of "this is who I was meant to be."  Your goal should stretch your limits, but also be attainable.  My idea of writing a bestseller was not attainable (it required WAY too many steps that I wasn't in control of, AND merrily skipped over the fact that I had never finished a book EVER) while finishing my manuscript was.  Lastly, it should be measurable.  We should know in the end if you've achieved it, or not.  I'm pretty good at helping people figure this out, so if you have a basic idea, we can refine it together.

You need to be brave:  We'll be putting together plans and challenging each other to push our boundaries, step out of our comfort zone, get yourself out there and get it done.  Gotta have balls, otherwise you'll get bored and stuck.  Can you be creative when things don't go right?  The first scary step is right here:  Email me at {shay@spirespire.com} and put Round Two in the subject line.  At least, start the conversation even if you don't feel like you've got all your ducks in a row.  Part of my job is to listen and see if we can figure it out.  It might sound silly, but sending that one email may be what you really need to do right now.  

SO.  Think about it.  Start dreaming.  We're aiming for a launch date of February 15th or March 1st depending on participant schedules.  OR! Spread this post around, especially if you can think of a friend/sibling/mom/grandpa who would be perfect for something like this.  We're shooting for somewhere between 6 to 12 participants!

Do it!

 
 
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Well, well, well.  Here we are again.  Tuesday.

I just got to see Julie for an hour today and catch up with my old roomie, and she expressed how difficult it was to come up with something to write about sometimes and I’m totally in agreement.  Sometimes it’s hard not to be completely boring.  However, I will try.

I’m going to reveal some stuff that’s been rattling about in the background taking up my brain space.

First, I think that SpireSpire is going to undergoing some major overhaul in the next phase.  Some of the problem of SpireSpire is the HUGENESS of what it covers.  Is it writing, or weightloss or language or music or theater…or what the crap is this thing?  IT’S SO BIG.  There’s the common denominator of the goal, but the paths all look so different.  So what I’ve found is there is little to no cross pollination.  If you read Christian, you probably don’t read me.  You might follow Kaylynn, but not Julie or Matt.  Lexie and Matt, but not Kaylynn…blah blah blah.  People like the idea of SpireSpire, but when rubber meets the road, you follow who you know or what you personally are interested in.  That’s totally fine, but that means you’re bored or not getting content for about 5/6 days of the week.  That’s lame on a blog level.  It’s currently like we have 6 almost completely separate communities based around each person.  And each person brings in about 200 visitors a day—no joke.  But it can’t build on much of anything, because we’re all separated by topic and interest and then bored by lack of content for the other 6 days.

The other things is what Julie said to me this morning (how I love seeing her, she’s just such a burst of energy and thought.  LOVE) was that everybody’s self-motivator is broken.  We’re all so excited in the beginning, but you run out of ways to inspire yourself or keep yourself on track.  I don’t think SpireSpire really did much in that arena other than be there, tracking your progress.  Which is helpful, but even the value of that wears thin after a time.

So, what to do?  Well, I think the first thing is to narrow our focus.  I hate it.  I don’t want to.  I want to keep it broad because I like all the different goals…but it’s like the project itself is resistant to it.  I’m limiting the value of what it can accomplish because it’s not specializing in any one thing.  The reality is people need not only accountability but also fresh and creative ideas to shake them out of ruts and I can only think of so many of those by myself.  Also, it would be kind of insulting for me to advise on language learning or weight loss because I’m not very good at either one of those things.  So…I’ll give you three guesses on what the focus of SpireSpire is going to be and the first two don’t count…

Writing.

It makes sense, doesn’t it?  At least, this is what it will be to start out. I'm half really excited and half really bummed, because I had a few people lined up for phase 2 of this version of SpireSpire, and I'm not sure what to do now. My ultimate goal is to find people that are fellow Developers that would be excellent coaches for other areas and have smaller niches within Spire and have SpireSpire itself become a hub for all these different areas.

The other problem to solve is that the internal motivational fires only burn for so long.  I’m currently working on a “Spirecourse” for writers, a weekly inspiration mixed with tasks and assignments specifically designed for writers hoping to take a book from its idea to phase to a fully polished manuscript in one year.  Actually, I’m testing out the curriculum early on some willing guinea pigs, so if this idea is of interest to you, shoot me an email at shay@spirespire.com.  Eventually, I’d like to have several: one to write the book, another to land an agent/sell/market it, and then smaller three month goals for specific improvement.

So, in the meantime, I’m trying to stay faithful to my book while still starting some of the work on the next phase.  We’re going to finish all of the goals all the way through the year and a bit beyond to clean up some loose ends before we start our switch.  Because…it would be stupid for me to try and guide someone else through writing a book if I can’t even finish editing my own manuscript and get it perfect.  So there’s that.

So, that’s news number one.  I’ll give you news number two next week.  Stay tuned!

(And no, I'm not pregnant.)


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To read Shay's journey with her first novel, click here.

 
 
"Man's mind stretched to a new idea never goes back to its original dimensions." --Oliver Wendell Holmes.

Welcome to SpireSpire!  This is an experiment to take six people, from all different walks, spanning a couple of continents and see if we can break down the myth that success happens overnight.  Each participant has chosen a goal that they are passionate about, something that they've always wanted to do, and also something that seems to lie outside of the realm of possibility. 

If it sent a shiver up our spines, we were in the right place.

The hypothesis is this:  If a person does one thing a day to forward themselves towards their goal, one of those things being something that is "out of the box" or fear-inducing (no sitting in your room practicing all day, please), that by the end of a year, they will have achieved something that they didn't think possible.

This is for anybody who has given into the feeling that success happens to other people, but couldn't happen to you.  We give the petri dish that is SpireSpire.

The blog will be updated daily, each dreamer has their own day, so the hope is that you come here to follow one story and get sucked into the others.

Also:  Check out our own Christian Lyon and this awesome video he made in honor of our launch!!!!